Knowing them will allow you to know what type of assistance you need to resolve any disagreements and what actions to take.
It is hard for parents to know when to stop being the “nice cooperative” parent to a fault, afraid to cause ANY conflict or have ANY disagreement, and when to start acting as an active focused advocate for their child in the IEP process. There is guilt and angst associated with this process. Many parents jump from having a disagreement right to wanting to go to court or due process. The school is not your friend nor your enemy. Parents must learn to act professionally and bring documentation to the table just as they would to a business meeting. The business meeting for their child is called the IEP meeting. They do not need to negotiate their child’s rights away, lower their expectations nor be treated with disrespect.
It is not uncommon for school district employees to make declarative statements that are untrue. “We don't cover that here” or “That is not our policy”. If the statement is not challenged then the issue does not need to be discussed.
When this happens always ask for the policy to be sent to you in writing.You will be amazed at how often they cannot send such policies.
Please, please! get your information from more than ONE SOURCE. There's a saying in medicine you don't go to a surgeon if you don't want surgery. So don't go to a lawyer unless you want to sue the district. While lawyers can be great advocates as they give you a bigger picture of what's going on and an opinion on whether you may or may not have a case, they are not IEP experts. Creating an IEP with goals that can lead to functional outcomes is not their expertise. Their job is to help you enforce that IEP once written.
The school can afford to delay the IEP process. Your child cannot afford to delay their educational process. Do not allow a child to go without help and the school to drag their feet just so you can have a Due Process Case. This is equivalent to malpractice in medicine, so I don’t know why parent lawyers do this.
FIRST, DO NO HARM!
Most parents don't understand that when you disagree with the IEP you are beginning a legal process. It doesn't involve lawyers, but it is a legal process. That is why we have procedural safeguards. 99% of all parents do not read them. Most advocates do not understand them adequately enough to use them! So please, do yourself a favor and read the Procedural Safeguards. A lot of people spent a lot of time and effort into creating them because it is always important to preserve the child's rights.
We cannot agree as to what should or should not be in the IEP.
The school is not complying with legal procedural mandates related to an existing IEP or the IEP process.
PROCEDURAL VIOLATIONS occur when schools fail to comply with the IEP development process-based requirements of IDEA.
SUBSTANTIVE VIOLATIONS occur when the IEP’s substantive content is insufficient to provide the child with a free appropriate public education (FAPE). This includes appropriate individualized instruction and educational support or failure to implement key aspects of an IEP.
When a child is being discriminated against because of their disability.
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AUTHORS
Marie Lewis is an author, consultant, and national speaker on best practices in education advocacy. She is a parent of 3 children and a Disability Case Manager, Board Certified Education Advocate, and Behavior Specialist Consultant. She has assisted in the development of thousands of IEPs nationally and consults on developing appropriately individualized IEPs that are outcome based vs legally sufficient. She brings a great depth of expertise, practical experience, and compassion to her work as well as expert insight, vision, and systemic thinking. She is passionate and funny and she always inspires and informs.
MJ Gore has an MEd in counseling and a degree in elementary education and natural sciences. She worked as a life-skills and learning support teacher She has been honored with the receipt of the Presidential Volunteer Service Award. She is the Director and on the faculty at the National Special Education Advocacy Institute. Her passion is social justice, especially in the area of education. She is a Board Certified Education Advocate who teaches professional advocates, educators, and clinicians the best practices in education advocacy.
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